{"id":990585,"date":"2023-06-19T21:32:54","date_gmt":"2023-06-19T19:32:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/haranta.dusanrybar.sk\/?p=990585"},"modified":"2023-06-19T21:32:54","modified_gmt":"2023-06-19T19:32:54","slug":"co-je-pre-zenu-najdolezitejsie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/co-je-pre-zenu-najdolezitejsie\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010cO JE PRE \u017dENU NAJD\u00d4LE\u017dITEJ\u0160IE?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u010co je pre \u017eenu najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie by\u0165 matkou, ma\u0165 dobr\u00fd vz\u0165ah alebo nap\u013a\u0148a\u0165 svoje poslanie?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u010casto sa stret\u00e1vam s n\u00e1zorom \u017eien alebo z \u010dl\u00e1nkov, ktor\u00e9 tvrdia, \u017ee \u017eenu rob\u00ed \u017eenou materstvo. To, \u017ee je matkou. \u010eal\u0161ie tvrdia, \u017ee to najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie v \u017eivote \u017eeny je vz\u0165ah s mu\u017eom, mo\u017enos\u0165 stara\u0165 sa o rodinu. O nap\u013a\u0148an\u00ed poslania \u017eeny, pokia\u013e sa to net\u00fdka vy\u0161\u0161ie uveden\u00e9ho, sa ve\u013emi nehovor\u00ed. O tom, \u017ee mu\u017eovo poslanie a ciele s\u00fa tie najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie, sa hovor\u00ed a menej sa spom\u00edna vz\u0165ah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\u010co<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee pre \u017eenu je \u00faloha podporova\u0165 mu\u017ea<\/a>, ma\u0165 deti a vz\u0165ah, a \u017ee je to viac, ako nap\u013a\u0148anie svojho poslania? \u017de \u017eena \u017eije len pre druh\u00fdch a aby sa mu\u017e a deti mohli realizova\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010co potom, ke\u010f deti odrast\u00fa?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Mnoho \u017eien mi bude oponova\u0165, ve\u010f ma\u0165 deti je poslanie. \u00c1no, v niektor\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch to tak naozaj je, no toto poslanie je len na ur\u010dit\u00fd \u010das. A \u010do potom? Potom, ke\u010f deti odrast\u00fa a \u017eij\u00fa svoj \u017eivot, tak tak\u00e1to \u017eena u\u017e je zbyto\u010dn\u00e1? \u010co je potom pre \u017eenu d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00e1vnej\u0161ie som robil jednu s\u00fa\u0165a\u017e a \u017eeny dostali ot\u00e1zku: \u201e\u010co v\u00e1s rob\u00ed \u017eenou?\u201c cca 95 % odpoved\u00ed bola \u201eby\u0165 matkou\u201c. Pre m\u0148a osobne to bolo vcelku \u0161okuj\u00face. Naozaj bez det\u00ed nie je \u017eena \u017eenou? A \u010do \u017eeny, ktor\u00e9 nechc\u00fa alebo nem\u00f4\u017eu ma\u0165 deti? Ako sa vlastne maj\u00fa zaradi\u0165 v tejto spolo\u010dnosti ak \u201enie s\u00fa \u017eenami\u201c, lebo nemaj\u00fa deti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kde je vlastne skuto\u010dn\u00e1 hodnota \u017eeny?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

St\u00e1le viac si uvedomujeme, \u017ee hodnotu n\u00e1m nem\u00f4\u017ee da\u0165 ni\u010d z vonku, t\u00fa m\u00f4\u017eeme z\u00edska\u0165 len t\u00fdm, \u017ee ju objav\u00edme v sebe, no aj napriek tomu sa \u017eena c\u00edti \u017eenou, len ak m\u00e1 die\u0165a. M\u00f4j n\u00e1zor je, \u017ee to nie je ani trochu v poriadku. \u00c1no, ch\u00e1pem, \u017ee za to z ve\u013ekej \u010dasti m\u00f4\u017ee historick\u00fd v\u00fdvoj, v\u00fdchova, kolekt\u00edvne vedomie a aj samotn\u00ed mu\u017ei, ktor\u00ed sa tak k \u017een\u00e1m spr\u00e1vaj\u00fa. No st\u00e1le netreba zab\u00fada\u0165 na fakt, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 slobodn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu a ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo a mo\u017enos\u0165 sa vymani\u0165 z t\u00fdchto vzorcov a za\u010da\u0165 \u017ei\u0165 svoj \u017eivot pre seba, a nie pre ostatn\u00fdch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00f4\u017ee ma\u0165 \u017eena svoje poslanie a \u010do je pre \u017eenu najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Samozrejme, \u00e1no. Je pravda, \u017ee mnoho \u017eien v r\u00e1mci svojho poslania m\u00e1 aj materstvo a postaranie sa o deti. No nie v\u0161etky a nie cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Je to \u010das\u0165 poslania na tejto zemi. Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 odhali\u0165, \u010do je na\u0161e poslanie na to, aby sme mohli \u017ei\u0165 naplnen\u00fd a \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd \u017eivot bez pocitu pr\u00e1zdnoty a bez pocitu, \u017ee tu sme len pre ostatn\u00fdch a ne\u017eijeme svoj \u017eivot. C\u00edti\u0165 naplnenie, \u0161\u0165astie, rados\u0165 a \u010fal\u0161ie skvel\u00e9 em\u00f3cie, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1me zo svojho \u017eivota, je na nezaplatenie. A to nehovor\u00edm o \u0161\u0165ast\u00ed typu, \u201eJa som \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, ke\u010f je moje die\u0165a<\/a> \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9.\u201c Ak to od v\u00e1s va\u0161e die\u0165a skop\u00edruje, \u010do st\u00e1le rob\u00ed, tak bude \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9, len ke\u010f budete vy \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1. A ke\u010f\u017ee \u010dak\u00e1 na va\u0161e \u0161\u0165astie a vy na \u0161\u0165astie die\u0165a\u0165a, tak sa spolu ocitnete v za\u010darovanom kruhu \u010dakania na to, ako sa c\u00edti ten druh\u00fd, namiesto toho, aby sme robili a \u017eili to, \u010do n\u00e1s nap\u013a\u0148a a pri \u010dom c\u00edtime \u0161\u0165astie a rados\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kedy sa \u017eena c\u00edti \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 a \u010do je pre \u017eenu najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Pre spresnenie, ak je poslanie \u017eeny v ur\u010ditej peri\u00f3de \u017eivota die\u0165a, tak samotn\u00fd fakt, \u017ee m\u00e1 die\u0165a, ju nap\u013a\u0148a a c\u00edti sa \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1. Nie z toho, ke\u010f je die\u0165a \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9. Ale to, \u017ee ho priviedla na svet a m\u00f4\u017ee ho podporova\u0165 na jeho ceste a sledova\u0165 jeho v\u00fdvin s vedom\u00edm, \u017ee jej \u00faloha nie je vlastni\u0165 ani pohlti\u0165 die\u0165a, ale by\u0165 mu t\u00fdm najlep\u0161\u00edm vzorom, ak\u00fdm dok\u00e1\u017ee by\u0165. Spravi\u0165 v\u0161etko pre to, aby sa stala t\u00fdm najlep\u0161\u00edm \u010dlovekom, ak\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017ee, a aby to nau\u010dila aj svoje die\u0165a. Ste si teda ist\u00e9, \u017ee je naozaj va\u0161e poslanie ma\u0165 die\u0165a? Je to pre \u017eenu najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie? Alebo je to s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 v\u00e1\u0161ho poslania, alebo je to dokonca len potreba z tlaku tejto spolo\u010dnosti a je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 prizna\u0165 si, \u017ee je to n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 a nezvl\u00e1date to tak \u013eahko, ako niektor\u00e9 in\u00e9 \u017eeny, ktor\u00e9 to absol\u00fatne nap\u013a\u0148a? A k tomu v\u0161etk\u00e9mu sa c\u00edtite zle, \u017ee v\u00e1s to \u0165ah\u00e1 k nie\u010domu in\u00e9mu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aj mu\u017ei, aj \u017eeny maj\u00fa pr\u00e1vo nasledova\u0165 svoje poslanie\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

U\u017e len priznanie si t\u00fdchto faktov a uvedomenie si toho, ako to m\u00e1te, m\u00f4\u017ee v\u00fdrazne pom\u00f4c\u0165 k zn\u00ed\u017eeniu tlaku, ktor\u00fd si vytv\u00e1rate a t\u00fdm v\u00e1m to d\u00e1 priestor zmeni\u0165 priority a \u017ei\u0165 naplnen\u00fd \u017eivot tak, ako je to pre v\u00e1s spr\u00e1vne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sme naozaj tak\u00ed rozdielni, \u017ee mu\u017e m\u00e1 ma\u0165 poslanie a nasledova\u0165 ho a c\u00edti\u0165 naplnenie a \u017eena sa m\u00e1 stara\u0165 o to, aby sa mu to podarilo?  Alebo predsa len sme rovnak\u00ed a aj mu\u017ei aj \u017eeny maj\u00fa pr\u00e1vo nasledova\u0165 svoje poslanie, nap\u013a\u0148a\u0165 a u\u017e\u00edva\u0165 si svoj \u017eivot naplno?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Za\u010dnime h\u013eada\u0165 to, \u010do n\u00e1s sp\u00e1ja<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Presta\u0148me h\u013eada\u0165 rozdiely medzi mu\u017eom a \u017eenou a za\u010dnime h\u013eada\u0165 to, \u010do n\u00e1s sp\u00e1ja. Vytv\u00e1rajme partnerstv\u00e1, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa podporuj\u00face pre poslanie a naplnenie \u017eeny a rovnako aj mu\u017ea, a podporujme sa v tom, aby sme to dosahovali spolu. Ve\u010f spolu ide v\u0161etko \u013eah\u0161ie a pokia\u013e to dok\u00e1\u017eeme, tak zrazu bude dos\u0165 energie a priestoru postara\u0165 sa spolu a podpori\u0165 aj svoje deti bez toho, aby to \u0161lo na \u00fakor jedn\u00e9ho z partnerov a bez toho, aby sa niekto musel obetova\u0165.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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