{"id":990571,"date":"2023-06-19T21:30:33","date_gmt":"2023-06-19T19:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/haranta.dusanrybar.sk\/?p=990571"},"modified":"2023-06-19T21:30:33","modified_gmt":"2023-06-19T19:30:33","slug":"sebahodnota-v-praxi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/sebahodnota-v-praxi\/","title":{"rendered":"SEBAHODNOTA V PRAXI"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Mnohokr\u00e1t sa p\u00fa\u0161\u0165ame do boja so sebou sam\u00fdmi, namiesto toho, aby sme si sami seba ust\u00e1li. Niekedy rad\u0161ej unikneme alebo zves\u00edme hlavu a prij\u00edmame to, \u010do je k dispoz\u00edcii, namiesto toho, aby sme pouk\u00e1zali na svoju hodnotu, ust\u00e1li to a postavili sa za to, \u010doho sme naozaj hodn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Image by Shahid Shafiq<\/a> from Pixabay<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Vn\u00fatorn\u00fd boj, ktor\u00fd sa ned\u00e1 vyhra\u0165\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Vn\u00fatorn\u00fd boj, ktor\u00fd si v sebe vytv\u00e1rame nekonan\u00edm, aj ke\u010f c\u00edtime, \u017ee by sme mali, sa ned\u00e1 vyhra\u0165. No opakovane sa do neho p\u00fa\u0161\u0165ame, akoby sme sa sna\u017eili aspo\u0148 tam z\u00edska\u0165 nejak\u00e9 v\u00ed\u0165azstvo. Presved\u010di\u0165 sam\u00fdch seba, \u017ee je to tak v poriadku. N\u00e1js\u0165 dostato\u010dne p\u00e1dne a logick\u00e9 v\u00fdhovorky, aby sme sa uspokojili a \u201evyhrali\u201c ten boj. Povedzme, \u017ee niekedy nadobudneme pocit, \u017ee sme vyhrali. Pote\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1s to na chv\u00ed\u013eku, no naozaj len na chv\u00ed\u013eu. Preto\u017ee zist\u00edme, \u017ee ak sme vyhrali, tak niekto musel aj prehra\u0165. No ke\u010f\u017ee bojujeme sami so sebou, tak sme to op\u00e4\u0165 my, kto prehral.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pre\u010do potom vlastne vytv\u00e1rame tento boj a zbyto\u010dne sa tr\u00e1pime?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Odpoved\u00ed je mnoho. Napr\u00edklad je jednoduch\u0161ie bojova\u0165 v sebe, ako si ust\u00e1\u0165 svoju hodnotu vo\u010di vonkaj\u0161iemu svetu a \u010deli\u0165 v\u0161etk\u00fdm strachom. A tu sa dost\u00e1vame k paradoxom, ktor\u00fdmi s\u00fa skoro v\u0161etky strachy<\/strong>. Sme presved\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee strach n\u00e1s chr\u00e1ni, no v skuto\u010dnosti pr\u00e1ve strach n\u00e1m pom\u00e1ha vytv\u00e1ra\u0165 realitu, z ktorej m\u00e1me strach. Boj\u00edme sa neprijatia, \u017ee nie sme dostato\u010dn\u00ed, \u017ee nie\u010do nezvl\u00e1dneme, \u017ee zlyh\u00e1me<\/strong>, \u2026 Tieto strachy n\u00e1s paralyzuj\u00fa a e\u0161te viac udup\u00e1vaj\u00fa posledn\u00e9 zvy\u0161ky na\u0161ej hodnoty. Aby sme aspo\u0148 nie\u010do z nej zachr\u00e1nili, tak rad\u0161ej to, \u010do rie\u0161ime, oto\u010d\u00edme proti sebe, \u201euspokoj\u00edme sa\u201c s nejakou v\u00fdhovorkou a vn\u00fatorne sa ni\u010d\u00edme, \u010d\u00edm ukazujeme \u201ecel\u00e9mu svetu\u201c okolo n\u00e1s na\u0161u nehodnotu. Tak\u017ee pr\u00e1ve tieto strachy n\u00e1m pomohli dosiahnu\u0165, \u017ee n\u00e1s neprij\u00edmaj\u00fa, \u017ee sa c\u00edtime e\u0161te viac nedostato\u010dn\u00ed, \u017ee sme to nezvl\u00e1dli a zlyhali sme.<\/strong> Ve\u010f ako si n\u00e1s maj\u00fa ostatn\u00ed v\u00e1\u017ei\u0165, ke\u010f si nev\u00e1\u017eime sam\u00fdch seba? Ke\u010f si nepovieme a neustoj\u00edme, \u010doho sme hodn\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010coho sa vlastne boj\u00edme?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Pre\u010do sa vlastne tak ve\u013emi sna\u017e\u00edme? Ve\u010f sebahodnota je pr\u00e1ve o tom, \u017ee ju netreba nikomu dokazova\u0165. Sta\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee ju m\u00e1me, sme si jej vedom\u00ed a komunikujeme to, \u010do je pre n\u00e1s spr\u00e1vne, pravdiv\u00e9  a to, \u010do c\u00edtime, \u017ee si zasl\u00fa\u017eime. \u010coho sa vlastne boj\u00edme? Ve\u010f pri najhor\u0161om dostaneme odpove\u010f \u201eNIE\u201c a aj na jej z\u00e1klade sa predsa vieme rozhodn\u00fa\u0165, ako \u010falej. A aj pri takejto odpovedi vieme tej druhej strane uk\u00e1za\u0165, \u017ee sa vieme postavi\u0165 za seba, \u017ee si v\u00e1\u017eime sam\u00fdch seba, a \u017ee n\u00e1m na sebe z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, \u010do vytv\u00e1ra na \u013eud\u00ed dojem. Za\u010dn\u00fa si n\u00e1s v\u00e1\u017ei\u0165 a vidie\u0165 na\u0161u hodnotu do takej \u00farovne, ako ju vid\u00edme a vn\u00edmame my sami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Invest\u00edcia do seba je jedin\u00e1 hodnota, ktor\u00e1 nikdy nebude ohrozen\u00e1\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u010co s t\u00fdm? Len t\u00fdm, \u017ee si povieme, \u017ee u\u017e m\u00e1m hodnotu, sa hodnota neobjav\u00ed. Je to neust\u00e1la pr\u00e1ca uvedomovania si v\u0161etk\u00fdch momentov v na\u0161om \u017eivote, ktor\u00e9 sa objavuj\u00fa a my im potrebujeme \u010deli\u0165. Ke\u010f si ich uvedom\u00edme, m\u00e1me dve mo\u017enosti, v\u00fdhovorky (\u00fatek, nekomunik\u00e1cia, tv\u00e1renie sa, \u017ee je v\u0161etko v poriadku, presvied\u010danie sam\u00fdch seba, \u017ee to tak m\u00e1 by\u0165, teraz nie je ten spr\u00e1vny \u010das, mo\u017eno nabud\u00face, \u2026)  alebo aj napriek strachom naberieme odvahu a budeme komunikova\u0165 to, \u010do c\u00edtime, do takej miery, do akej sme schopn\u00ed a s odstupom \u010dasu to bude lep\u0161ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odpor\u00fa\u010dam investova\u0165 do seba. Preto\u017ee invest\u00edcia do seba je jedin\u00e1 hodnota, ktor\u00e1 nikdy nebude ohrozen\u00e1, \u017eiadnymi trhmi, ani ekonomikou. Je to jedin\u00e1 hodnota, ktor\u00e1 narast\u00e1 a nem\u00f4\u017ee klesn\u00fa\u0165. Preto zvy\u0161ujme svoju hodnotu nie svojim majetkom a sumou na bankovom \u00fa\u010dte, ale dosiahnut\u00edm najlep\u0161ej verzie sam\u00fdch seba, aby sme ju v\u017edy vedeli najlep\u0161ie pou\u017ei\u0165 a zu\u017eitkova\u0165 v ka\u017edom okamihu n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mnohokr\u00e1t sa p\u00fa\u0161\u0165ame do boja so sebou sam\u00fdmi, namiesto toho, aby sme si sami seba ust\u00e1li. Niekedy rad\u0161ej unikneme alebo zves\u00edme hlavu a prij\u00edmame to, \u010do je k dispoz\u00edcii, namiesto toho, aby sme pouk\u00e1zali na svoju hodnotu, ust\u00e1li to a postavili sa za to, \u010doho sme naozaj hodn\u00ed. Vn\u00fatorn\u00fd boj, ktor\u00fd sa ned\u00e1 vyhra\u0165\u2026 Vn\u00fatorn\u00fd boj, ktor\u00fd si…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":990870,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","iawp_total_views":1,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-990571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezaradene","pmpro-has-access"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=990571"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990571\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/990870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=990571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=990571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=990571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}