{"id":990563,"date":"2023-06-19T21:28:45","date_gmt":"2023-06-19T19:28:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/haranta.dusanrybar.sk\/?p=990563"},"modified":"2023-06-19T21:28:45","modified_gmt":"2023-06-19T19:28:45","slug":"zena-na-materskej-muz-zaraba-koho-su-to-peniaze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/zena-na-materskej-muz-zaraba-koho-su-to-peniaze\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017dENA NA MATERSKEJ, MU\u017d ZAR\u00c1BA"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Pr\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto sa stret\u00e1vam s n\u00e1zorom mu\u017eov, \u017ee ke\u010f je \u017eena na materskej a oni zar\u00e1baj\u00fa, tak s\u00fa to ich peniaze, lebo oni ich zarobili. Tu nar\u00e1\u017eame na ve\u013ek\u00fd probl\u00e9m. Mnohokr\u00e1t si tento probl\u00e9m neuvedomuj\u00fa ani samotn\u00e9 \u017eeny v tak\u00fdchto partnerstv\u00e1ch. Preto je dobr\u00e9 si to jasne pomenova\u0165 a za\u010da\u0165 to meni\u0165, k\u00fdm nie je pr\u00edli\u0161 neskoro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\u017dena<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Ak\u00fd je to vlastne probl\u00e9m?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Partnerstvo nem\u00f4\u017ee r\u00e1s\u0165 a rozv\u00edja\u0165 sa, pokia\u013e v \u0148om nie s\u00fa obaja partneri naplno a nie s\u00fa vyrovnan\u00ed. Pokia\u013e mu\u017e dr\u017e\u00ed peniaze, tak mu to d\u00e1va moc, kontrolu a pocit, \u017ee on by mal rozhodova\u0165 v partnerstve. \u017dena sa \u0161tandardne podvol\u00ed, preto\u017ee t\u00fato nerovnov\u00e1hu poci\u0165uje, no m\u00e1lokedy si to uvedom\u00ed. Berie to ako prirodzen\u00e9. Videla to napr\u00edklad u svojich rodi\u010dov alebo sa s t\u00fdm be\u017ene stret\u00e1va u svojich bl\u00edzkych. Mnoho mu\u017eov bude namieta\u0165, \u017ee  to tak nie je, \u017ee \u017eena si m\u00f4\u017ee poveda\u0165 svoj n\u00e1zor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ot\u00e1zne je, \u010di bude tento jej prejaven\u00fd n\u00e1zor bran\u00fd do \u00favahy alebo bude mu\u017eom okam\u017eite prevalcovan\u00fd argumentmi napriek tomu, \u017ee sa mu\u017e bude na\u010falej tv\u00e1ri\u0165, \u017ee re\u0161pektuje svoju \u017eenu. \u010casom sa \u017eena prestane sna\u017ei\u0165 d\u00e1va\u0165 svoj n\u00e1zor najavo a v tom mu\u017ei za\u010dn\u00fa c\u00edti\u0165, \u017ee v\u0161etko je len na nich. Za\u010dn\u00fa sa utvrdzova\u0165 v tom, ko\u013eko toho vlastne robia a ako ve\u013emi sa obetuj\u00fa pre \u017eenu a pre rodinu, no \u010falej od pravdy asi ani nem\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165. V partnerstve sa nem\u00e1me obetova\u0165, v partnerstve sa m\u00e1me podporova\u0165. No na to, aby to fungovalo, mus\u00edme sa hlavne re\u0161pektova\u0165 a nie by\u0165 presved\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee v\u0161etko vieme najlep\u0161ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017deny, ak prestanete komunikova\u0165 svoj n\u00e1zor alebo sa pust\u00edte do argument\u00e1cie, tak tak\u00fdto mu\u017e, ktor\u00fd dr\u017e\u00ed peniaze a moc, v\u017edy vyhr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako si ust\u00e1\u0165 svoje rozhodnutie?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Jedin\u00fd sp\u00f4sob je ust\u00e1\u0165 si svoje rozhodnutie bez potreby obhajova\u0165 ho a bojova\u0165. Uk\u00e1\u017ete svoju silu a m\u00fadros\u0165 pr\u00e1ve bez boja. Boj bude prin\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 v\u017edy len \u010fal\u0161\u00ed boj. No ust\u00e1\u0165 si samu seba v tom, \u010d\u00edm ste a \u010do je aj pre v\u00e1s d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, m\u00f4\u017eete len v l\u00e1ske a prijat\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tak\u00edto mu\u017ei maj\u00fa \u0161tandardne probl\u00e9m so svojou hodnotou, preto ju nevidia ani vo svojej partnerke, a vlastn\u00fa nedostato\u010dnos\u0165 si dop\u013a\u0148aj\u00fa  pr\u00e1ve peniazmi. Treba sa ich sp\u00fdta\u0165, \u010di by boli spokojn\u00ed, ak by oni zostali doma s de\u0165mi a starali sa o ne, ak by stratili pr\u00edjem a kari\u00e9ru.  Ak by o v\u0161etky peniaze, ktor\u00e9 by na nie\u010do potrebovali, museli svoju partnerku takmer prosi\u0165 a t\u00e1 by im zaka\u017ed\u00fdm dala poc\u00edti\u0165, \u017ee ve\u013ea m\u00ed\u0148aj\u00fa a \u017ee to nie s\u00fa ich peniaze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Presne tak sa c\u00edtia aj \u017eeny, ktor\u00e9 si takto musia p\u00fdta\u0165 peniaze. T\u00e1 potupa, ktor\u00fa v tak\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch c\u00edtite, namiesto toho, aby v\u00e1s partner na ruk\u00e1ch nosil. Ve\u010f sa star\u00e1te o spolo\u010dn\u00e9 die\u0165a. Vzdali ste sa v\u0161etk\u00e9ho, aby ste sa stali zamestnancom vo svojej dom\u00e1cnosti a venovali sa opatere 24 hod\u00edn denne v nepretr\u017eitej slu\u017ebe. Tak ste sa stali z\u00e1visl\u00e1 na partnerovi a na tom, ako sa on rozhodne. A ak by do\u0161lo k \u201enajhor\u0161iemu\u201c a budete sa rozv\u00e1dza\u0165, tak bude bojova\u0165 za to, \u017ee to s\u00fa len jeho peniaze. A za t\u00fdch 24 hod\u00edn denne venovan\u00fdch opatere o die\u0165a a aj partnera ste predsa dostali zaplaten\u00e9, ve\u010f m\u00e1te matersk\u00fa a rodi\u010dovsk\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na\u0161\u0165astie z\u00e1kony a bezpodielov\u00e9 spoluvlastn\u00edctvo man\u017eelov chr\u00e1nia \u017eenu pred t\u00fdm, aby ju tak\u00fdto mu\u017e obral o v\u0161etko a aby jeho ego bolo viac, ako zdrav\u00fd rozum. To v\u0161ak nerie\u0161i va\u0161e pocity. Pocity, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1te zaka\u017ed\u00fdm, ke\u010f d\u00f4jde na t\u00e9mu pe\u0148az\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 t\u00e1to situ\u00e1cia viac a viac nahlod\u00e1va partnerstvo. Je ot\u00e1zkou \u010dasu, kedy prestane fungova\u0165. Za\u010d\u00edna to st\u00e1le ni\u017e\u0161\u00edm z\u00e1ujmom a nakoniec a\u017e stratou z\u00e1ujmu o bl\u00edzkos\u0165 a sex. \u010co vedie k e\u0161te v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm tlakom a manipul\u00e1ci\u00e1m so strany partnera. A namiesto toho, aby sa rie\u0161il skuto\u010dn\u00fd probl\u00e9m, tak sa v\u0161etci sna\u017eia rie\u0161i\u0165 len d\u00f4sledky a nie s\u00fa ochotn\u00ed pozrie\u0165 sa na pr\u00ed\u010dinu a zmeni\u0165 ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010co s t\u00fdm?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Ak ste v partnerstve a chyst\u00e1te sa na die\u0165a, necho\u010fte do toho, k\u00fdm si spolu nevykomunikujete financie. Ako budete fungova\u0165. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z v\u00e1s ide do toho s nejakou predstavou a o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00edm, no navz\u00e1jom<\/a> si to nepoviete a potom, ke\u010f pr\u00edde k l\u00e1maniu chleba, budete trpie\u0165. Je mnoho sp\u00f4sobov ako to spravi\u0165. D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je, \u017ee sa dohodnete tak, aby ste obaja boli spokojn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u010do, ak u\u017e ste v takom vz\u0165ahu a m\u00e1te die\u0165a, a mu\u017e m\u00e1 vy\u0161\u0161ie spom\u00ednan\u00fd postoj k peniazom? Otvorte t\u00fa t\u00e9mu, za\u010dnite vn\u00edma\u0165, ako sa v tom c\u00edtite a komunikujte mu to. V mnoh\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch si to v\u00f4bec neuvedomuje a m\u00f4\u017eete dosiahnu\u0165 v\u00fdrazn\u00fa n\u00e1pravu vo vz\u0165ahu a v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu harm\u00f3niu. No ak m\u00e1te mu\u017ea<\/a>, ktor\u00fd o tom nechce ani po\u010du\u0165, aj to je odpove\u010fou na to, ako si v\u00e1s v\u00e1\u0161 partner v\u00e1\u017ei. Ako si v\u00e1\u017ei to, \u010do pre neho a va\u0161e spolo\u010dn\u00e9 die\u0165a rob\u00edte a je len na v\u00e1s, \u010do s t\u00fdm \u010falej sprav\u00edte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nesmieme zabudn\u00fa\u0165 na to, \u010do je najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie. Na n\u00e1\u0161 vlastn\u00fd \u017eivot a\u00a0ako sa v\u00a0\u0148om c\u00edtime, ako ho \u017eijeme a\u00a0s\u00a0k\u00fdm.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pr\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto sa stret\u00e1vam s n\u00e1zorom mu\u017eov, \u017ee ke\u010f je \u017eena na materskej a oni zar\u00e1baj\u00fa, tak s\u00fa to ich peniaze, lebo oni ich zarobili. Tu nar\u00e1\u017eame na ve\u013ek\u00fd probl\u00e9m. Mnohokr\u00e1t si tento probl\u00e9m neuvedomuj\u00fa ani samotn\u00e9 \u017eeny v tak\u00fdchto partnerstv\u00e1ch. Preto je dobr\u00e9 si to jasne pomenova\u0165 a za\u010da\u0165 to meni\u0165, k\u00fdm nie je pr\u00edli\u0161 neskoro. Ak\u00fd je…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":990882,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","iawp_total_views":1,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-990563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezaradene","pmpro-has-access"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=990563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990563\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/990882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=990563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=990563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=990563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}