{"id":990151,"date":"2023-06-02T12:21:54","date_gmt":"2023-06-02T10:21:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/haranta.dusanrybar.sk\/?p=990151"},"modified":"2023-06-02T12:21:54","modified_gmt":"2023-06-02T10:21:54","slug":"co-hladame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/co-hladame\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010co h\u013ead\u00e1me?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Za \u010d\u00edm sa \u017eenieme? \u010c\u00edtame si hlbok\u00e9 my\u0161lienky na facebooku a\u00a0na r\u00f4znych in\u00fdch miestach. Niektor\u00e9 sa n\u00e1s niekde vo vn\u00fatri dotkn\u00fa, in\u00e9 zas nie. Rozumieme im? Ch\u00e1peme, \u010do to je? Ten pocit, ktor\u00fd v\u00a0n\u00e1s vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00fa? Chceme ho vlastne pochopi\u0165? Alebo inak, sme na to pripraven\u00ed? Pripraven\u00ed zhodi\u0165 zo seba limity, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m diktuje spolo\u010dnos\u0165 a\u00a0odhali\u0165, \u010do to je?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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\u00a0<\/span>Som na to pripraven\u00fd? Neviem. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee \u00e1no. \u010cas\u0165 zo m\u0148a ur\u010dite.\u00a0M\u00f4\u017eem sa v\u0161ak ja rozhodn\u00fa\u0165, \u017ee to chcem odhali\u0165? Ako odl\u00ed\u0161im, \u010di to nie je len rozhodnutie mysle, preto\u017ee chcem by\u0165 najlep\u0161\u00ed alebo chcem ma\u0165 to, \u010do druh\u00ed, alebo\u2026 \u010co sa so mnou stane, ak naozaj nebudem\u00a0pripraven\u00fd a\u00a0zrazu otvor\u00edm pandorinu skrinku a\u00a0nezvl\u00e1dnem uchopi\u0165 to, \u010do sa tam ukr\u00fdva.<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/span>Nejak\u00e9 veci som u\u017e pochopil, porozumel a\u00a0prijal. Objavila sa potreba to uk\u00e1za\u0165 v\u0161etk\u00fdm. Je to len \u010fal\u0161\u00ed prejav ega? Nejak\u00e9ho automatick\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vania? Pravdepodobne \u00e1no. Ke\u010f sa raz vyd\u00e1me do seba, za\u010dneme odha\u013eova\u0165 n\u00e1nosy toho, \u010do pozn\u00e1me ako JA. Za\u010dneme str\u00e1ca\u0165 svoju identitu, ktor\u00fa sme si tak dlho budovali s\u00a0presved\u010den\u00edm, \u017ee to sme my. Na\u0161e hodnoty, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa zalo\u017een\u00e9 nie na na\u0161ej podstate, ale na presved\u010deniach, z\u00e1\u017eitkoch, pravidl\u00e1ch, konceptoch tejto spolo\u010dnosti ako takej pova\u017eujeme za z\u00e1klad toho, \u010do sme. A\u00a0ak sa pozrieme na to, na \u010dom s\u00fa postaven\u00e9, zist\u00edme, nako\u013eko s\u00fa tieto hodnoty skuto\u010dn\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/span>Pozrime sa do zrkadla, \u010do je to, \u010do chceme, aby videli ostatn\u00ed a\u00a0\u010do je to, \u010do sami vid\u00edme a\u00a0nechceme, aby videli druh\u00ed? Ako ve\u013emi je ten obraz rozdielny? Nako\u013eko by bolo oslobodzuj\u00face, keby sme sa mohli na seba pozrie\u0165 s\u00a0l\u00e1skou a vidie\u0165 sa tak\u00ed, ak\u00ed sme a\u00a0nemali strach to v\u0161etk\u00fdm uk\u00e1za\u0165?\u00a0Nie je n\u00e1hodou toto t\u00e1 sloboda, ktor\u00fa h\u013ead\u00e1me?<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/span>V\u0161etci chceme za\u017ei\u0165 bezpodmiene\u010dn\u00fa l\u00e1sku. Je to v\u00f4bec mo\u017en\u00e9? \u00c1no, je. Mnoho \u013eud\u00ed ju v\u0161ak neza\u017eije. Ak ste si pr\u00e1ve povedali, \u017ee va\u0161a l\u00e1ska tak\u00e1 je, tak v\u00e1m blaho\u017eel\u00e1m. Pred t\u00fdm, ako budete spokojne\u00a0pokra\u010dova\u0165 v\u00a0\u010d\u00edtan\u00ed s\u00a0pocitom, \u017ee patr\u00edte len k\u00a0h\u0155stke \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed to m\u00f4\u017eu za\u017ei\u0165, si spravte\u00a0mal\u00fd test. Predstavte si, \u017ee va\u0161a l\u00e1ska by v\u00e1m povedala, \u017ee by chcela vysk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165 sex s\u00a0niek\u00fdm in\u00fdm. Ako by ste zareagovali? Ak je va\u0161a l\u00e1ska bezpodmiene\u010dn\u00e1, odpove\u010f bude, samozrejme, u\u017ei si to. Ak v\u00e1s, naopak,\u00a0stiahne, preto\u017ee\u00a0nie\u010do tak\u00e9 je predsa nepr\u00edpustn\u00e9, to sa nerob\u00ed, to je nespr\u00e1vne\u2026 Tak ste pr\u00e1ve do va\u0161ej l\u00e1sky dali podmienku. A\u00a0t\u00e1to podmienka znamen\u00e1, \u017ee chcete svojho partnera vlastni\u0165. V\u00a0t\u00fa chv\u00ed\u013eu sa stratila sloboda. A\u00a0pritom v\u00e1\u0161 partner\u00a0e\u0161te ni\u010d neurobil, len vyjadril z\u00e1ujem. Ak by ste mu povedali, jasne cho\u010f, asi by ne\u0161iel, nako\u013eko tak\u00fa slobodu v\u00a0l\u00e1ske by u\u017e nena\u0161iel a\u00a0o\u00a0nie\u010do tak\u00e9 nechce\u00a0nik pr\u00eds\u0165. A\u00a0ak by aj \u0161iel, tak by sa\u00a0vr\u00e1til, pr\u00e1ve pre t\u00fa slobodu a\u00a0prijatie, ktor\u00e9 ste vytvorili. Je toto \u010do h\u013ead\u00e1me? T\u00e1to kr\u00e1tka uk\u00e1\u017eka je nie\u010do, na \u010do v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina \u013eud\u00ed pravdepodobne povie nie, a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 po tom t\u00fa\u017ei. Ako potom m\u00f4\u017eeme t\u00fa\u017ei\u0165 po nie\u010dom, \u010do vlastne podvedome\u00a0odmietame? Alebo lep\u0161ie povedan\u00e9, na \u010do e\u0161te nie sme pripraven\u00ed?<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/span>V\u00a0tomto mieste nast\u00e1va ten boj, boj medzi na\u0161im vn\u00fatorn\u00fdm vn\u00edman\u00edm pravdy v\u00a0n\u00e1s a\u00a0okolo n\u00e1s (to \u010do sa v\u00a0n\u00e1s ozve pri hlbok\u00fdch cit\u00e1toch\u2026) proti na\u0161ej mysli. Na\u0161a myse\u013e, ktor\u00fa si tak v\u00e1\u017eime a\u00a0ktor\u00e1 n\u00e1m neust\u00e1le komplikuje \u017eivot. Vytv\u00e1ra strachy a\u00a0dr\u017e\u00ed n\u00e1s v\u00a0il\u00fazii bezpe\u010dia, zavret\u00fdch v\u00a0malej miestnosti, odp\u00fatan\u00fdch od sam\u00fdch seba. T\u00e1 miestnos\u0165 nem\u00e1 dvere ani okn\u00e1. Ako sa cez \u0148u dosta\u0165 von? Udierame, bojujeme, ni\u010d\u00edme sa t\u00fdm, ako ve\u013emi sa chceme odtia\u013e dosta\u0165 a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 sa tam boj\u00edme \u00eds\u0165. \u010co ke\u010f to nezvl\u00e1dneme? Ak by sme sa nasilu odtia\u013e dostali, \u010do ak n\u00e1s to roztrh\u00e1? \u010co ak nie sme pripraven\u00ed?<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/span>Ako sa vlastne m\u00e1me pripravi\u0165? Ak prestaneme bojova\u0165, \u010do sa stane? Budeme musie\u0165 osta\u0165 sami so sebou. Zastavi\u0165 sa, obr\u00e1ti\u0165 sa do seba, lebo nikoho na tomto svete nem\u00e1me, len sam\u00fdch seba. Spoznajme sa, objavme svoju silu, svoju pravdu, svoju hodnotu a\u00a0hlavne l\u00e1sku k\u00a0sebe sam\u00e9mu. A\u00a0pochop\u00edme, \u017ee t\u00e1 miestnos\u0165 okolo n\u00e1s bol len strach. Z\u00a0n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota za\u010dne mizn\u00fa\u0165 posudzovanie, odsudzovanie, nen\u00e1vis\u0165 a\u00a0namiesto toho sa za\u010dne objavova\u0165 st\u00e1le viac l\u00e1sky a\u00a0prijatia. \u00a0Pochop\u00edme, \u017ee sme na\u0161li to, \u010do sme h\u013eadali. To, \u010do sme si mysleli, \u017ee je len pre vyvolen\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed p\u00ed\u0161u tie hlbok\u00e9 my\u0161lienky. U\u017e ich ch\u00e1peme. U\u017e to m\u00e1me, nie\u010do, \u010do n\u00e1m nem\u00f4\u017ee vzia\u0165 nik in\u00fd, iba my sami.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Za \u010d\u00edm sa \u017eenieme? \u010c\u00edtame si hlbok\u00e9 my\u0161lienky na facebooku a\u00a0na r\u00f4znych in\u00fdch miestach. Niektor\u00e9 sa n\u00e1s niekde vo vn\u00fatri dotkn\u00fa, in\u00e9 zas nie. Rozumieme im? Ch\u00e1peme, \u010do to je? Ten pocit, ktor\u00fd v\u00a0n\u00e1s vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00fa? Chceme ho vlastne pochopi\u0165? Alebo inak, sme na to pripraven\u00ed? Pripraven\u00ed zhodi\u0165 zo seba limity, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m diktuje spolo\u010dnos\u0165 a\u00a0odhali\u0165,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":990153,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","iawp_total_views":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-990151","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezaradene","pmpro-has-access"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990151","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=990151"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990151\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/990153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=990151"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=990151"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=990151"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}