{"id":990145,"date":"2023-06-02T12:17:49","date_gmt":"2023-06-02T10:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/haranta.dusanrybar.sk\/?p=990145"},"modified":"2023-06-02T12:17:49","modified_gmt":"2023-06-02T10:17:49","slug":"deti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/deti\/","title":{"rendered":"Deti"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"990145\" class=\"elementor elementor-990145\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bdf8e16 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bdf8e16\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b95d5e8\" data-id=\"b95d5e8\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7adb56 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b7adb56\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ten pocit, \u017ee svojim de\u0165om nevenujeme dos\u0165 \u010dasu\u2026 Ten pocit, \u017ee zlyh\u00e1vame pri ich v\u00fdchove\u2026 Ten pocit, ke\u010f im nevedome ubli\u017eujeme, lebo \u201evieme\u201c, \u010do je pre nich najlep\u0161ie\u2026<\/p><p>Niekde po ceste sme stratili intu\u00edciu a\u00a0d\u00f4veru, \u017ee aj na\u0161e deti s\u00fa dokonal\u00e9 bytosti a d\u00e1va\u0165 im podporu do \u017eivota je rozdielne od toho, \u010do naozaj rob\u00edme, ako im riadime \u017eivot pod\u013ea na\u0161ich presved\u010den\u00ed a\u00a0vn\u00edmania, \u010do je spr\u00e1vne a \u010do nie.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bf87436 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bf87436\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span>Vieme naozaj, \u010do je spr\u00e1vne? Alebo sa len slepo riadime t\u00fdm, \u010do sme sa nau\u010dili? Rodi\u010dia n\u00e1m pred\u00e1vali ich sk\u00fasenosti, menili n\u00e1s na ich obraz, preto\u017ee si mysleli, \u017ee tak je to spr\u00e1vne. Nikto ich nenau\u010dil, \u017ee sme r\u00f4zne osobnosti a\u00a0spr\u00e1va\u0165 sa rovnako ku v\u0161etk\u00fdm a\u00a0predpoklada\u0165, \u017ee by sme sa mali spr\u00e1va\u0165 rovnako \u201erozumne a\u00a0spr\u00e1vne\u201c ako oni je len ni\u010denie n\u00e1\u0161ho vlastn\u00e9ho rozvoja.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">\u0160kola, n\u00e1bo\u017eenstvo\u2026 v\u0161etci n\u00e1m cel\u00fd \u017eivot hovoria, \u010do je \u201espr\u00e1vne\u201c a\u00a0ako by sme sa mali spr\u00e1va\u0165. A\u00a0my to aplikujeme na na\u0161e deti. To, \u017ee to tak funguje po st\u00e1ro\u010dia neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee to je spr\u00e1vne. Napr\u00edklad to, \u017ee si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee moje die\u0165a by malo hra\u0165 na nejak\u00fd n\u00e1stroj aj napriek tomu, \u017ee ho to nebav\u00ed. Ve\u010f ho m\u00f4\u017eem s\u00a0poz\u00edcie sily prin\u00fati\u0165, lebo je to \u201espr\u00e1vne\u201c, to, \u017ee v\u00a0\u0148om vytvor\u00edm odpor k\u00a0tomu n\u00e1stroju alebo \u00a0hudbe ma vlastne nemus\u00ed zauj\u00edma\u0165. Tak\u00fdchto pr\u00edkladov by sme mohli da\u0165 nekone\u010dn\u00e9 mno\u017estvo. V\u017edy to rob\u00edme s\u00a0dobr\u00fdm \u00famyslom, preto\u017ee inak nevieme a\u00a0ver\u00edme, \u017ee toto je spr\u00e1vne. Z\u00a0vlastn\u00fdch sk\u00fasenost\u00ed a\u00a0nau\u010den\u00fdch pr\u00e1vd sa sna\u017e\u00edme formova\u0165 na\u0161e deti tak, aby boli \u010do najlep\u0161ie pripraven\u00e9, len zab\u00fadame na ich vlastn\u00e9 osobnosti, ktor\u00e9 nasilu prer\u00e1bame na nie\u010do, \u010do nie s\u00fa. Ak m\u00e1me doma umelecky nadan\u00e9 die\u0165a a\u00a0my ho budeme ni\u010di\u0165 za to, \u017ee mu nejde matematika a\u00a0k\u00fdm sa to nenau\u010d\u00ed, tak sa nebude venova\u0165 tomu, \u010do ho bav\u00ed a\u00a0v\u00a0\u010dom vynik\u00e1. A\u00a0to v\u0161etko len preto, lebo sme presved\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee bez dobr\u00fdch zn\u00e1mok a\u00a0ovl\u00e1dania matiky sa nikdy nedostane na dobr\u00fa \u0161kolu, a preto bude v\u00a0\u017eivote ne\u00faspe\u0161n\u00e9. \u00a0Povedie to len k tomu, \u017ee matematiku aj tak nikdy nebude ovl\u00e1da\u0165 a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 sa nebude rozv\u00edja\u0165 v\u00a0tom, v \u010dom vynik\u00e1 a\u00a0my zabijeme jeho kreativitu a\u00a0tvorivos\u0165.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Keby sme sa niekedy na ne pozreli ako na seberovn\u00fdch, ve\u013ea by sme sa mohli nau\u010di\u0165, preto\u017ee oni e\u0161te nepri\u0161li o intu\u00edciu, o \u010dist\u00fa rados\u0165 zo \u017eivota, o bezpodmiene\u010dn\u00fa l\u00e1sku\u2026 To my sme t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed ich o to nevedome pripravuj\u00fa.<\/p><p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u00a0<\/span>Za\u010dnime vn\u00edma\u0165 osobnostn\u00e9 rozdiely medzi nami a na\u0161imi de\u0165mi a nech\u00e1vajme im priestor pre ich rozvoj. Nezab\u00edjajme v nich pocity. Preto\u017ee plaka\u0165 sa nem\u00e1, hneva\u0165 sa nem\u00e1, vlastne \u017eiadne em\u00f3cie by sme rad\u0161ej nemali pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165, hlavne nie tie \u201ezl\u00e9\u201c. Neni\u010dme ich potenci\u00e1l a\u00a0kreativitu, lebo im nedovol\u00edme sa vyjadri\u0165 a\u00a0robi\u0165 to, \u010do ich bav\u00ed. Nezv\u00e4zujme ich na\u0161ou vinou, \u017ee sa im m\u00e1lo venujeme a potom ich dr\u017e\u00edme pri sebe a dus\u00edme. Podporme ich v\u00a0tom, \u010do potrebuj\u00fa a v \u010dom s\u00fa dobr\u00e9\u2026<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Bu\u010fme im vzorom, nie \u0161\u00e9fom a dovo\u013eme im rozvin\u00fa\u0165 ich potenci\u00e1l, aby mohli \u017ei\u0165 svoj \u017eivot naplno, aby si nazbierali svoje vlastn\u00e9 sk\u00fasenosti. A\u00a0objavili sami, \u010do je pre nich spr\u00e1vne, z\u00a0ich vn\u00fatornej slobody a\u00a0\u010distoty.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ten pocit, \u017ee svojim de\u0165om nevenujeme dos\u0165 \u010dasu\u2026 Ten pocit, \u017ee zlyh\u00e1vame pri ich v\u00fdchove\u2026 Ten pocit, ke\u010f im nevedome ubli\u017eujeme, lebo \u201evieme\u201c, \u010do je pre nich najlep\u0161ie\u2026 Niekde po ceste sme stratili intu\u00edciu a\u00a0d\u00f4veru, \u017ee aj na\u0161e deti s\u00fa dokonal\u00e9 bytosti a d\u00e1va\u0165 im podporu do \u017eivota je rozdielne od toho, \u010do naozaj rob\u00edme,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":990147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","iawp_total_views":3,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-990145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezaradene","pmpro-has-access"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=990145"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990145\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/990147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=990145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=990145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haranta.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=990145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}